Sunday, January 29, 2012

Mudballs and Flying Geese

Last Wednesday, I played nine holes at deep twilight with my golf buddy JW. She consistently outdrives me by a good 30 to 40 yards, but I love playing with her because she always reminds me that golf is supposed to be fun. When a very large flock of geese crowded the fairway, she didn’t hesitate to join me in doing raucous impressions of dogs, hawks, bears, owls, cows, and other animals we thought might be a natural predator of, and therefore scary to, the aforementioned geese.

Either we suck at doing animal impressions, or these birds were stone deaf. After we gave a few more well-intentioned attempts to shoo them away, we had no choice but to tee off directly into the apathetic flock. I must have hit one, as evidenced by a loud squawk and a sudden fluttering of wings from amid the center of the group.

I felt kind of bad about it, but the bird did not seem any worse for the wear. And except for some mild guilt, I would not incur any penalty for hitting a goose. According to the official rules of golf, if a player’s ball is accidentally stopped or deflected by an outside agency, such as a goose, there is no penalty, but the ball must be played as it lies.

Loitering geese, grazing on fairway grass because the pickings are slim elsewhere, are just one peril of winter golfing. Another hazard is the inevitable mudball.

On Saturday, I played with hubby. It was cloudy and in the low-50s, but the ground was wet and muddy from rain the night before. Sometimes I took up so much mud with a shot, it felt like I was getting a spa treatment. And my mud-encrusted balls flew like satellites out of orbit.

Hubby said there was such a thing as unofficial “winter rules,” where you can do things like clean mud off your ball on the fairway. But I wouldn’t have it. On the putting green, the official rules of golf let you mark and clean your ball, even if it has just a speck of dirt on it. But elsewhere on the course, you pretty much have to play it as it lies.

Besides, I’m stubborn and never want to take relief. I once hit off a cart path because that’s where the ball landed, and I didn’t know you could take relief off of cart paths without penalty. I should probably get more familiar with the official golf rules, but I think playing it “as it lies” is the essence of golf.

Playing it “as it lies” is where the challenge lies. And overcoming challenges is its own reward.

On Saturday, I slogged through muddy grass and chilly wind only to shoot a pitiful 108. But I made it through a full 18, which on such a winter day carried with it a sense of satisfaction. And here was my other reward, a painterly, bluish pink-orange, cloudy sunset kind of sky:


 A picture doesn't do the sunset, or the feeling, justice.

Thursday, January 26, 2012

How to Keep the Left Arm Straight Once and for All

At the range the other day, I ran into a neighbor who happened to be taking a golf lesson from one of the best local golf gurus, Julieta Stack. I went over to say hello, and started chatting. My neighbor said she used to play field hockey, so I assumed she would pick up golf easily since she was used to swinging a stick along the ground.

“Actually,” Julieta said, “field hockey and squash players are the hardest to teach. They’re used to too much wrist-flicking action.”

I told her I was having trouble maintaining my wrist hinge and keeping my left arm straight.

“Can I show you something real quick?” she said. 

Now when a golf teacher asks if she can show you something, you say yes. It’s like getting a lesson for free. “Yes, of course,” I said.

“Grip your club,” she said. 
 I gripped my club with the head still touching the ground.

“Okay, now raise your club in front of you and stick the butt of the shaft away from you.” 

I did as I was told. The weight of the club head made my arms automatically straighten to keep the club from falling over. As my left palm pressed outward to push the butt of the club shaft away, my left arm stiffened out of reflex.
   
“Feel that?” she said.
 I nodded and smiled.
“Then just hold that and take your set-up,” she said. 

It was definitely an “aha” moment. Those are the kinds of golf tips I like best -- the kind that gets your body to do the right thing without having to think about it. Whenever I feel my left arm breaking down and need to remind myself how to keep it straight, this drill will definitely come in handy.

Thank you, Julieta!

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Equipment Check

Over the weekend, snow fell for the first time this winter, but yesterday was sunny and in the low 50s, so of course I hit the range. I tried the baseball grip again, but I think it only works when it’s in the 30s and my fingers are kind of numb. I went back to my usual overlapping grip, starting my 6 iron and working up. On driver, I aimed at the 168-yard target flag on a mound in the distance, and came up just short, at around 160 to 165. Not bad. For me, anyway.

I also ran into Seri (not her real name), one of the Korean women I met a few weeks ago at the range. She is more petite than me, but drives the ball just as far. After she watched my swing, she said, “Good. But you swing slow, like a ballerina.” I told her I make an effort to swing slow on the takeaway. And my swing speed is about 70 mph, according to the monitor at the golf store. Pretty average for amateur women.

“70!” she said, surprised. “Mine is 110!”
“Really!” I said. “Most pro golfers swing only about 100 mph.”
Seri put her hand over her mouth and giggled. “Oh, maybe it’s kilometers.”
I laughed. “Then we’re about the same swing speed after all.”

As I watched her swing, she explained how she keeps all her weight on the left foot throughout the swing so her spine and head can remain straight without moving to the right.

“So you use the stack and tilt method,” I said.  
“Actually,” she said. “I didn’t know it had a name when I started using this kind of swing.”
She showed me in detail how to do it, and I tried it with my driver. The ball flew low and to the left. It felt weird.
“Hmmm, not sure this would be good for my back,” I said.

We went on to discuss equipment. I play with Ping G2s, and Seri wanted to try some of my clubs. In turn, I looked into her bag and saw a variety of pastel-colored shafts and white vinyl clubhead covers with embroidered flowers on them. She said her clubs were imported from Japan. They were made to fit Asian women, with small grips and feather-light shafts. She said they cost $4000. The driver alone cost a grand.

I always wondered if better equipment really translated to better results. I tried her driver, which was about an inch longer than mine and had a 420cc head (mine is only 400cc). It definitely felt easier to swing, but I couldn’t tell if I got much more distance out of it. Definitely not a thousand dollars’ worth of more distance.

Truth be told, if I really wanted a piece of equipment that would shoot the ball far and hit all my targets, it would probably look more like a shotgun than a golf club. But that wouldn’t be any fun, now would it?

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Batter Up

Last Sunday the weather dipped down into the low 30s. But it was sunny and I was jonesing to hit the range. I convinced my hubby to come along, but I made the mistake of telling him this idea I had about trying out the baseball grip.

For some reason, the words “baseball grip” seemed to trigger something deep in his psyche that caused him to erupt into an apoplectic rage.  

“Oh, no, not the baseball grip!” he said. “Just don’t do it!”
“But why?” I said, perplexed by his virulent protest.
“You’ll be hitting viscious hooks and nasty pulls,” he said. “You’ll regret you ever tried it!”
“But it’s one of the three main grips used in golf,” I said. “Why shouldn’t I try it?”
“No professional golfer in history has ever, ever used the baseball grip,” he countered.
“But I am not a pro golfer,” I said. “And the baseball grip is supposed to be good for women, kids, or people with small hands and weak fingers. That’s me!” I reasoned.
Finally, he exploded, “No, no, no! I will not have the baseball grip used by anyone in this household!”

I was really amazed that hubby got so emotional about the baseball grip. He explained to me how he had once tried the baseball grip and it messed him up for years. It took him a long time to get back on track and the whole experience left him traumatized forever.

I tried to explain my reason for wanting to try it: “All I can say is when I did that drill with Mike, it felt like I was swinging a baseball bat. Except the ball was on the ground. Trying out the baseball grip is the only way that can help me get the feel of that drill.”

Hubby finally relented when I pulled up an online video of David Leadbetter teaching a baseball swing drill for beginner golfers. “Well, I guess it’s all right if David Leadbetter says so…”

At the range, we got a small bucket of 40 balls since it was too cold to stay out for very long. But it was enough for me to try out the baseball grip. I normally use the Vardon grip, otherwise known as the overlapping grip, in which my right pinky overlaps the left index finger. For the baseball grip (aka ten-finger grip), all the fingers are on the club and don’t overlap. The right pinky is snugged up against the left index finger.

I kept my arm stick straight and resisted the urge to rotate fully, which tended to make my left arm break down. To make sure I didn’t grip the club too tightly, I alternated taking shots with baseball grip and Vardon grip. With the baseball grip, I really got the feel of delaying the release of my wrists till I was closer to the bottom of my swing.

The results? I had my 7-wood going 140 yards, even with 20 mph winds and temps just above freezing. On driver, I hit balls about 150-160, and a few of them were dead straight. On the purest shots, I made good, crisp contact that sounded like castanets.

I think hubby was actually impressed.

I definitely think I am onto something with this whole baseball grip. I still need to figure out how to rotate fully without letting my left arm bend, which I think will give me a payoff in distance. But as soon as the weather warms up, I'm gonna play ball on the driving range again!

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Analyze This

I took Greenie to the range last week. Greenie is my nickname for my iPad, since it has a green cover. I don’t know why I never took video of my swing before. I suppose I was too self-conscious before. But now, I have no shame. I mean, I just publicly admitted that I nicknamed my iPad.

Anyhoo, toward the end of my session at the range, I propped up Greenie on the stall floor in front of me, recorded some swings with my 6-iron and 7-wood, and headed back home to analyze them. Hubby downloaded an app called VideoPix that allowed me to play the video in slow motion.

I started with the 7-wood swing video. It was like watching a surveillance tape and immediately recognizing the perpetrator. I took the club back, hinged my wrists, started the downswing, then – okay, pause, there it is right there – the wrists unhinge and release too early! Busted! Caught on tape!

I played back the video again. Just after I released my wrists, I could see the club shaft flex and bow, unloading all the energy. Unfortunately, because I released too early, this was happening way before the clubhead actually met the ball. By the time it reached the ball, the club shaft had already shot its wad, so to speak.


It was a harsh reality. But it made me finally understand the importance of wrist hinge. It’s like this: Try using a plastic fly swatter with a straight arm and wrist. Then try using it by flicking your wrist. With a straight arm and wrist, it would be hard to get the swatter to slap a fly with any kind of conviction. Only if you swat with some wrist action can you get the swatter to go “Splat!” And the way I’ve been swinging, it’s like I’m swatting in the air, at nothing.

However, the situation is a little better with my irons. In the video of my 6-iron shots, the shaft unloads closer to the bottom of the swing, where the ball is, which may explain why I am seeing improved distances with them. Perhaps because irons are shorter and lighter, I can swing them faster, so even if I can delay releasing just a little more than before, I can benefit a lot.


In the still shot above, you might notice that the club shaft appears flexed almost into a C-shape. This is not because my swing speed is so fast it can actually cause the shaft to bend that much. The extreme shaft curve is actually a result of the quality of the recording device, as I learned from a YouTube video on Golf Shaft Flex Distortion.

If the video records by scanning from the top down, there is a fraction of a second delay in scanning the image as it progress from top to bottom. Depending on the shutter speed of the camera, this can result in a really distorted image. Coincidentally, I shot my irons video with Greenie set horizontally and the camera scanning from top to bottom. I shot my woods video with Greenie vertically, which is like turning the camera on its side, which resulted in less top-to-bottom distortion.     
   
Hmm, that could also explain why my thighs look a little heavier in the irons video. And, of course, the camera adds 10 pounds.

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Home on the Range

After that awful round when I shot 110, I decided I needed some serious range practice before I attempted to play again.

Last Tuesday was a sunny, warm day in the mid-40s. Around noon, I headed to the range and set up in an extra-wide stall usually reserved for teaching. Before “the injury” I used to go through a large bucket of 150 balls in 2 hours. For the past year or so, I have limited myself to a small bucket of 40. But last week on the range, I felt confident enough to handle a medium bucket of 85.

I decided to make it a textbook session, starting with wedge and working to driver. I took some practice swings to warm up, then checked my list, and focused on keeping my grip relaxed.

To my amazement, I hit my wedge about 80 yards. This is 30 yards farther than normal. As I worked my way through the irons, I found that they had all gotten longer. Even my 7 and 6 irons were traveling 5 to 10 yards farther than usual. But as soon as I transitioned to the woods, the dazzling improvements came to an end. On driver, one shot went about 160 in the air and rolled to about 164, but that was the best I could do.

I just couldn’t figure out what I was doing wrong. If Mike had been there, he would have just rolled out the video. Now I am hardly a Luddite, but I am somewhat of a late-adopter when it comes to technology. I held out on getting a cellphone till about 2003, and I still don’t use text messaging. I have never owned a video camera, but thanks to waves of technological advancement that have washed up around me while I sat on the beach, I don’t have to. Other devices that my hubby and I have acquired can also take video, including my cellphone, my digital camera, his iPhone, and our iPads. 

Now all I have to do is learn how to operate the video on one of them...

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Swinger’s List

I have an awful memory, which is why I need to write things down. When I first learned golf, I used to carry around a piece of paper with a diagram of how the clubface should look when I looked down at set-up. I also had a bunch of little notes scrawled on it, a list of things that would help me remember how to swing.

Now that I am pretty much back to square one, and re-learning the golf swing, I need to carry around a list again. Some of these items are from my old list, but they serve as perennial reminders:

Relax grip
Left arm straight
Head down
Arms long
Don’t reach
Rotate in the trunk
Hinge wrist
Check swing plane
Right elbow
Get weight left
Feel the lag
Knees touch

Some of the items on the list are shorthand. “Head down” means I should keep my eye on the ball and not lift up too quickly. “Right elbow” means that my right elbow should not be too close at the top of my swing, but then should tuck close on the downswing. And “knees touch” is a reminder that my right knee should almost touch the left as I finish.

Before I drift off to sleep at night, I silently recite the list, picturing the perfect swing in my head, hoping that mental rehearsals will result in flawless execution the next time I find myself standing at the tee.

The reality is I can only keep one or two of these thoughts in my head as I am swinging. So it goes something like this: "Grip relaxed? Okay, take it back and keep the left arm straight. Head down… swing, swoosh, done!”

If the ball goes more or less where I wanted it to, then I sigh in relief. If it doesn’t, then I check the list and try, try, try again.

Thursday, January 12, 2012

.38 Special’s Golf Tip

After the weekend’s terrible Saturday round, I went to the range on Sunday to try to see if I figure out what was wrong with my swing. But even at the range, all of my shots seemed to fall even shorter than usual. My husband said it was because of the cold weather.

But I knew it wasn’t. After practicing, I did notice that my fingers and left forearm were sore. That could only mean one thing: my grip was too tight. I had been so focused on trying to keep my left arm straight and my wrist hinged that I didn’t realize my fingers were squeezed around the club like a boa constrictor.

One of the first rules of golf is to keep a loose grip on the club, like you’re holding a live bird – tight enough so it doesn’t fly away but loose enough so you don’t squeeze it to death. I’ve never held a live bird, so I really have no idea what that’s supposed to feel like, but I’m pretty sure if I gripped a bird the way I gripped my golf clubs at the range, I’d have gotten bird guts all over my shoes.

Gross? Perhaps. But I think that’s a decent image to keep me from gripping my clubs too tight. That, and the lyrics of a certain classic rock band who once sang, “Hold on loosely… but don’t let go… If you cling too tightly…you’re gonna lose control…”

So true, Mr. Van Zant, so true…

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Swing Moods

“Golf is like a love affair. If you don't take it seriously, it's no fun; if you do take it seriously, it breaks your heart.” I didn’t write that. Some guy named Arthur Daley wrote it. It’s a famous golf saying posted on the stalls at the driving range.

Lately, golf has been crushing me.

On Saturday, hubby and I had a noon tee time. I probably should have taken the day off, but I was hopeful. It was sunny and in the 50s. The golf course was packed. I saw a couple of women checking in at the pro shop, and I thought, “Uh oh. Hope we don’t get paired with them.” It’s one thing to get paired with guys; since I play from different tees, it’s hard to compare my game to theirs. But if I play with women, who typically hit from the red tees like me, it can be a pissing contest. And yes, I am fully aware of the irony of that statement.

Over the summer, I had played with several women who landed drives a good 20-30 yards ahead of my ball, and every time it was like a bee sting to the heart. That pain is what motivates me to try to increase my driver distance.  
It turned out that we got paired with two older guys, and the women had the tee time after us. As I got up to tee off, I noticed that the noon sun was casting my shadow directly in front of my stance. Those who have been reading my blog know that I have a bad case of golf-related sciophobia -- fear of hitting over my own shadow. It’s not really a fear, but more like a psychological block. I don’t like the idea of hitting my own shadow because, well, it looks kind of like me.

Anyway, I teed off and drove the ball about 146 yards. Not bad for the first hole, with all the nerves jangling. I hoped things would improve.  

Wish I could say they did.

Hubby behaved himself all right. After I told him not to comment on my bad shots, he stayed pretty quiet. However, one of the guys we were playing with felt compelled to commentate like Nick Faldo, but only when it was my turn. He kept saying annoying things like “Okay, hole it in one stroke” when I was about to putt, or “That’s okay, you’ll do better next time,” after a bad shot, as if I needed someone to make me feel better.

To make matters worse, the other guy paired with us took forever to take a stroke. He hovered over his set-up like a marble statue. I felt like I could die waiting for the guy to hit the ball.

I like to play ready golf and keep things moving. I always walk, with my bag on a pull-cart, and I don’t like standing around waiting. I usually take only one practice swing before a stroke, and even less on a putt.  I like to play as if I am being chased.

Because of this slowpoke, however, we fell behind the pace of play. The women behind us would stand there, arms crossed, waiting for us to move along the fairway. My momentum dragged to a halt, and I just couldn’t get into the game. I hit three drives past my 150 benchmark to 162, 155, and 159 yards. But the rest were either short (in the 140s) or way short (around 100-120). I only made par on 2 holes and shot 110 for the round.

A pitiful performance. The only bright spot was when I hit 6-iron on a 110-yard par 3 and landed at the center of the green. The flag was front, so I had a long putt back, but this meant that I had hit my 6-iron a good 10 yards longer than usual.

Overall, I feel that my irons have improved, or stayed the same. But my woods are a stranger to me now. Like a mother whose babies are all grown up, I just don’t know how to hold them anymore.

That day, golf broke my heart. It has broken my heart many times before, but our relationship has always recovered. Sometimes a little time is all it takes to heal the wound. Maybe it’s time to step away and try to remember all the good things that brought us together in the first place.

Saturday, January 7, 2012

Friday Night Twilight

It has been a warm winter. Mid-week the temps fell into the 30s but by the weekend it was back in the 50s. I really should be grateful that the weather has been cooperating with my plans to work on my golf swing.

On Friday, I had a twilight 3pm time, so I hit the range half an hour beforehand. About a minute after I set up at a stall, a father and son set up right behind me. The kid was about 6 years old and obviously had no idea how to swing a golf club. The father started in with some incessant instructional chatter, which I tried to tune out but could not, so I picked up my ball bucket and moved to the opposite end of the range.  

In the quiet, I tried to remember the fundamentals of Mike’s drill, focusing on keeping my left arm straight and making a full swing without unhinging my wrist too soon. It felt pretty good, but I was only hitting balls about 150, same as before.

I went to check in with the Friday night twilight crew, which is me and three other golfers who attend a weekly meet-up hosted by a local golf course. They are an affable bunch, and the vibe is focused, yet relaxed. I warned them that I had started taking lessons again, so my swing might be rather unpredictable.

On the first hole, my drive went pretty straight and landed in the fairway about the same distance as usual. The second hole was a 366-yard par 4, and my drive rolled to about 150 yards within the pin. This meant that my ball had traveled about 216 yards from the tee ground, but it was a downhill fairway, so I didn’t get too excited about it.

The next hole was a 339 yard par 4. I drove the ball and thought it looked like it went farther than usual, but I couldn’t tell until I walked up to it and found a distance marker that could help me estimate how far I had landed from the center of the green. My ball had come to rest at about 170 yards away from the pin. This means that I had hit a 169-yard drive. “Could this be happening?” I thought to myself. I did the math twice to make sure it was correct. That’s almost 20 yards farther than my usual drive.

The fourth hole was a par 3, where I shanked several times because I was so excited about my long drive. On hole 5, I hit another long drive that flew about 167 yards. “This is really happening,” I thought to myself. We played three more holes before dark set in. On two of those holes, I hit driver about 155 and 165 yards.

Hole 8 was a par 3, 122 yards over water. This is one of my favorite holes to play on this course, especially in deep twilight when the setting sun casts an orange glow into the blue of the sky, and we’re playing by the light of the moon. It was especially beautiful tonight.



I hit 9-wood and landed in the bunker, but knowing that I might have made some progress with my driver distance, I remained elated.

Friday, January 6, 2012

The Golf Lesson: 2

So I had my second golf lesson with Mike. To help me understand the importance of wrist hinge, he taught me a drill where I set up and take a backswing, making sure to keep my left arm straight as I let my wrist hinge back with the club. Then as I begin to unwind, I keep my wrist set in this hinged position, letting my arms “pump” up and down.

Here’s the video of the before and after my lesson:


As you can see in the “before” shot, I had reverted back to some of my old habits of “pushing” the ball. But I had performed the drill at least one time that was good enough for Mike to record it as the “after” shot.

Couldn’t wait to see if this would help my distances, so I headed straight to the range. It was cold and windy there, and the shadows were casting toward my stance. I tried to practice the drill, but all the balls kept flying to the right. I only hit one straight about 110 yards with my 7-iron and wasted the rest of the bucket of balls trying to replicate it.

Frustrated, tense, and tired, I threw my bag of clubs into the car trunk and slammed the lid. I really wanted to see if I could get the hang of this wrist hinge concept but I didn’t want to spend any more time at this windy, shadowy range.

Luckily, there is another driving range nearby.

There, I saw two Korean women practicing, and one of them called out “Hi, Donna,” as I walked by. Donna is not my name, but this woman did know me. My husband and I had once played with her and her husband, randomly matched up by the same tee time. I’ll say her name is Bea, but that is not her real name either. As I recall, she played from the yellow tees and still drove the ball farther than me. Her swing looked really smooth, like she was sweeping up bread crumbs off the floor. I told her I had just come from a golf lesson.

“Why? You’re so good!” she said.
“Oh, but I’m not,” I lamented. “I can’t hit very far. Only about 150 these days.”

Bea told me she used to hit 235 yards, but then she had a baby and stopped playing for 10 years. Now she’s trying to play again but her driver distance has fallen to about 210 yards.

“210!” I said. “You’ve got to teach me how to do that!” I ran to get some range balls and showed her the drill I learned during my golf lesson.

“Hmm, that looks like old school,” she joked. “How old is your golf teacher?”

She said she learned from a Korean guy who doesn’t teach anymore. He taught her that the swing is based on the tension created by the torso moving one way and the hips moving the other way. You wind up and release like a rubber band.

Then she taught me a drill where I fold my arms over my chest and she gets behind me and holds my hips still, while I try to rotate on the backswing. “Do you feel those muscles working?” she said. “Use those.”

Apparently I was rotating too much in the upper torso and I should be rotating more in the waist. Plus I was not keeping my left arm straight. And I should be taking the club back longer. She put a stick on the ground along my target line behind the ball, and a pebble a couple inches in front of the ball. She said I should take the club head back parallel to the stick and then aim for the pebble.

The swing thoughts were piling up in my head. Based on what I’d seen and read about golf, everything Bea said rang true. So did everything Mike said. I was beginning to feel like golf advice is like astrology. No matter what horoscope you read, it always sounds like it could apply to you. 

So I put both drills together and tried to hit some balls. The result was a lot of crazy, wild shots that had Bea and me cracking up in laughter. A bunch of my balls dribbled past the 150 yard marker, but I definitely wasn’t getting any style points.

After practicing Mike’s drill all day, I couldn’t help but pump my arms up and down on the backswing, hesitating before the downswing like a baseball player waving a bat in the air. It reminded me of a swing I’d seen before. I spent the last dozen balls trying to swing in a fluid motion, but I just couldn’t do it. Defeated, I trudged back to the car. Night was falling and the cold air had a bite to it.  

Driving away from the range, I remembered who my hitchy new drill swing reminded me of: Charles Barkley, a name that strikes fear into the hearts of aspiring golfers. Charles Barkley’s swing is known as the world’s ugliest golf swing. People say that looking directly at his swing may cause permanent psychological damage, but if you look at Tiger Woods impersonating Charles Barkley's golf swing, you’ll get the idea.

I am really hoping tomorrow will be a better day.

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

My Unofficial Handicap Index

One of these days I will get an official handicap. In golf, a handicap is what enables golfers of various skill levels to compete on an equal basis. Most people think it’s the average number of strokes above par that you take to finish a round. But it’s a bit more complicated than that. It involves course ratings and slope ratings, as well as your scores on at least 5 of your past rounds.

To get an official USGA handicap, you can apply through a golf club or association licensed to give out handicap indexes.

To really level the playing field, though, I think other factors should come into play aside from getting an extra stroke allowance. For a match to be truly fair, my opponent would need to have some of these items on my "unofficial" handicap index:

- long hair that won’t stay put under a hat
- a bunion on at least one foot
- the kind of blood that mosquitoes like
- a bad case of hydrophobia (fear of hitting over water)
- a worse case of sciophobia (fear of hitting over my own shadow)
- golf shoes without cleats
and last but not least…
- a need to pee after every third hole

Sunday, January 1, 2012

First Round of the New Year

To celebrate the arrival of the new year, I made a tee time on January 1, 2012, at 12:12pm. The weather forecast called for sunny skies with a high of 53 degrees, so I wasn’t surprised to find the parking lot half full at the golf course. Good thing there was a football game today, or it would have been packed.

Yesterday was warm too, but I forced myself to take a day off since my neck and hip were feeling a bit achy. Today I felt just fine but resolved to swing easy and not try to kill it on driver. Hubby had the idea to play a match, and he gave me a stroke a hole. So on a par 4, for example, if I took five strokes and he took four, we’d still be even. Just before we teed off, the starter said to me, “Don’t forget the rules: You’re not allowed to beat him!” I laughed and replied, “Don’t worry, that never happens!”

For the first few holes, things went pretty well, which for me means I was staying a stroke or two above par. I landed on the green on hole 5, which was the site of my hole-in-one back in October. I haven’t repeated it since, but that never stops me from trying. This time, I ended up three-putting for a respectable bogey.


Then along came hole 6. From the red tees, it’s 405 yards to the pin, half of which is a steep uphill. I botched my drive and plugged the ball into the rough on the far right, a pitiful 80 yards or so from the tee ground. From there I tried rescuing the ball with my 7-wood, but the rough was thick and the ball was stubborn. I kept hitting fat shots that sent the ball dribbling forward, clinging to the side of the fairway like a gutterball. It took me 11 strokes to get my ball in the hole. Needless to say, hubby won that hole.

Given that I blew up so hard, we had to come up with a new golf term for my terrible score. In golf lingo, there’s bogey and double-bogey for one or two strokes above par. Three strokes over par is triple-bogey, and if par happens to be 5, then you’d get a “snowman,” which is what the 8 looks like. But what about 9, 10, and 11, which are numbers that are known to appear on my score card? Well, I thought of “lollipop” for a 9. For 10, hubby thought “bacon and egg” was a good phrase. And for 11? “Chopsticks,” he said.

On the back nine, the wind picked up and some clouds rolled in, and then raindrops started falling. At the 14th hole, we headed for shelter. We debated stopping for the day, but my husband surveyed the sky and looked at how fast the clouds were moving in the distance. “This should be over in about 20 minutes,” he predicted. So we loitered under the driving range hood till the rain subsided to a light drizzle.


Sometimes I play better in the rain. The grayness forms a cloak around me so I don’t get distracted by pretty blue skies, chirping birds, or shadows cast by the sun. On a wet fairway, balls don’t stray too far from where you land them, and a damp green is like putting on carpet. Perhaps because of this, I birdied the 16th hole. I hit my 6-iron on the 110-yard par 3, and made the 8-foot putt to my utter surprise. 

I shot 103 for the round. Hubby shot an 86. In terms of the match, I won 7 holes, he won 6, and we came out even on the rest. So technically, despite the starter's reminder, I did beat my husband. But we both had fun. Even though there were some dark clouds and cold rain, we weathered it. We even managed not to curse or bicker much. All in all, it was a great start to the new year.